Be in the moment

Be in the moment. It’s that simple. Whatever the moment it is, be in it. All the way in it. There is nothing worse than spending time with someone who is not in the moment. Have you ever spent time with someone who was on their phone the entire time or is otherwise preoccupied? It stinks. It especially stinks when you know they show someone else the respect, but they can’t bother to show you the same. It makes you feel unworthy. Like you aren’t enough. They don’t enjoy your company enough or you’re boring them. If this is the case then simply don’t spend time with them. I promise you they’d rather you just skip out than act like it’s an inconvenience or you’d rather be somewhere else. Perspective is everything. You can say anything you want, but your actions is what speak to another’s heart. How are you being perceived?